Life has a way of bringing us into seasons of wilderness—those lonely, confusing moments where it feels like we’re wandering without direction. Hagar’s story, tucked away in Genesis, reminds us that even in the wilderness, God sees us.

She gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: ‘You are the God who sees me. — Genesis 16:13 (NIV)

Hagar was a woman caught in circumstances beyond her control. As Sarah’s servant, she was thrust into a situation she didn’t ask for, used to fulfill someone else’s impatience with God’s promise. Her story mirrors those moments in our lives when we feel unseen, used, or forgotten. Yet, Hagar’s wilderness wasn’t the end of her story—it was the place where God met her.

Despite Sarah’s impatience, God’s promise remained intact. Sarah’s attempt to force the timing resulted in tension and hurt, not just for her but for generations to come. Hagar found herself running away, overwhelmed and alone, but God pursued her. He didn’t just give her instructions—He called her by name. Isn’t that powerful? In the middle of her mess, God acknowledged her identity and her pain.

It’s easy to judge Hagar’s decision to flee or to focus on Sarah’s impatience. But how often do we take matters into our own hands when waiting feels unbearable? We rush decisions, force outcomes, or speak words that carry weightier consequences than we imagined. Yet, even when we wander, God is there—seeing us, hearing us, and providing what we need.

One of the most striking elements of Hagar’s story is her naming of God: El Roi—“the God who sees me.” In a culture where she was invisible, God’s attention to her was life-changing. No matter how overlooked you feel, God’s gaze never shifts away. He sees the tears you cry when no one else is looking. He hears the whispered prayers you barely believe will be answered.

But there’s another layer to this story: the ripple effect of our choices. Hagar’s son, Ishmael, would become a father of nations, just as God promised. Yet, his lineage also became entangled in centuries of conflict. Our decisions, especially when born out of impatience or rebellion, can affect more than just us. They can echo through generations.

So, what do we do with this? First, we trust God’s timing—even when it feels like nothing is happening. His promises don’t come with expiration dates. Second, we watch our words and actions; they have power, not just in our lives but in the lives of those around us. Lastly, we rest in the truth that no matter how far we wander, God’s grace pursues us.

If you’re in a wilderness season, take heart. God sees you. He hears your cries. His plan for you isn’t derailed by your detours. Like Hagar, you might find your greatest encounter with God comes not when life is easy, but when you’re desperate for Him.

God, thank You for seeing us when we feel invisible. Help us to wait on Your timing and trust Your plan. Remind us that Your promises remain true, even when we can’t see the path forward. Lead us back when we stray, and let us rest in Your grace. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Listen to the full episode of the Hearing Jesus Podcast for more insights on Hagar’s story and how God’s grace meets us in our wandering here: Hagar’s Story